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Saturday, January 2, 2010

I just couldn't resist

So in case you haven't been paying attention, here's what happened.
After my first post on here, I completely stopped blogging.
About 4 months went by, the new year hit, and I decided to re-try blogging.
That blog is under www.365daysofkarma.com
However, I am posting on this blog because, well, I can. I'm greedy, I like having two blogs. One for the important stuff, and one for the bullcrap that I forget about the first time and don't go back for.
This is the latter.
Today's Thing I Forgot (T.I.F.) is about my love life.
Have you ever loved someone who didn't love you, but lied and said they did to keep the peace, and you knew they were lying, but you loved them too much to call them out? And then when your relationship imploded and you came flying out of there, all ragged and scorched from the blast, and decided to go your separate ways, did you realize that maybe you didn't love them anymore, but kept saying that you did, because you're afraid that the second you stop loving that person, they will love you? So then your life is this jumbled maze of hurt and anger?
That happened to me.
Let me give you a piece of advice. If you are in this situation......Let.Them.Go.
For real. It's a lot more dramatic and beautiful if you drop it now. It will probably save you the pain of having to be friends with that person afterwards....which you may think you want, but you don't. Because once you get to a certain depth of feeling, you can't let them go, no matter how much you distrust and or dislike them.
It's really tacky.
Just wanted to put that out there
***Karma Kay***

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